December 2023’s Poem of the month has a slightly different take on the subjects of giving and receiving. And, the way I understand it, the two are not that far apart.

Growing up, I was taught that “giving” was the proper thing to do. “Receiving” was not brought up in the discussion. So, it became easier and more comfortable for me to give to others than it was to receive from them. Finding the right words to say “thanks” was always awkward.

Then one day, it occurred to me that being a gracious receiver could actually be interpreted as a form of giving…

To give another person the opportunity to show kindness and affection for you opens your vulnerability and exposes your true “human” side… the “real” you.

Please enjoy the poem, “Receiving.”

And remember, whatever the question, love is always the answer…

RECEIVING

Somehow we’re taught that learning to give
Is more important than learning to receive.
So, from childhood on we practice the art of giving,
Assuming that always giving is a goal to achieve.

Yes, a generous spirit along with the gift
Is a goal that’s worthy of one’s pursuing;
Though it’s a one-direction move of a gift or good wishes,
And the act and direction could be up for reviewing.

Gracious acceptance is an art unto itself
And is seldom, if ever, cultivated.
Accepting gifts can be much harder than giving —
You’re allowing another to show how much you are appreciated.

And, in receiving the gift, you’re allowing another
To know the joy of giving with an open heart.
It’s a lovely, unending cycle that knows no end,
And you have the joy of knowing you have played your part.

According to C. C. Miller, “Hugging is the truest form
Of giving and receiving” at the same time.
You’re “getting” and “giving” all at once, and
The feeling you get is nothing short of sublime.