Conversations

Summer! Here at last!

In my opinion, when warmer weather arrives, people wear lighter and fewer layers of clothing, and seem to be happier and more open to reaching out to others, be they strangers or someone they already know. Warm weather affords a better chance for conversation to take place when people are not wearing puffy jackets and rain boots.

Good and/or unpleasant weather aside, conversation and exchange of ideas is paramount to communicating with others, to establishing friendships, and to solving problems.

One Jarod Kintz weighed in on the subject: “Communication is crucial to maintaining a relationship. Never marry a mime!”

All kidding aside, my interest in the subject of conversations brought about the following poem. I hope you enjoy it.

CONVERSATIONS

“The bond of all companionship is conversation,” my friends.
“Whether in marriage or friendship,” it holds true.
This is wisdom from Mark Twain, who shared his thoughts
With people like me and with people like you.

The art of conversation is the art of hearing,
As well as the art of being heard.
An ideal conversation is an exchange of thoughts,
And not an eloquent exhibition of words.

A real conversation always contains an invitation!
Yes… like an invitation to join in the dance.
You’re asking them to reveal themselves to you,
As you reveal yourself to them, with resonance.

Different people can look at the same fact
And interpret it differently, I imagine.
To understand where another is ‘coming from?’
Well, that’s where conversation begins!

A good conversation can shift the direction of change,
If those on each side are equally heard.
Choose to have a conversation with others
Rather than talking at them with your words.